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Jealousy & envy

Green Light

Working with jealousy and envy using DBT

Six weeks to make checking rare again

6 weeks·21 sessions·10–15 min a day·Built with clinicians
Jealousy-urge logSixty seconds, after any spike — checked or not.
Who it’s for

For anyone whose jealousy or envy has a compulsion attached to it: the phone checked one more time, the profile re-read for a different meaning, the comparison spiral that eats an evening. Not for managing someone else — this program is about what happens in you, before you ever touch their phone.

What’s inside

The first 4 sessions are free. Unlock the rest whenever you’re ready.

Begin
Week 1 · What Jealousy and Envy Are For
Week 2 · The Chain
05Your First Chain15 min
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06Solution Links12 min
07Weekly review6 min
Week 3 · The Urge to Check
08Urge Surfing the Spike12 min
09The Ten-Minute Rule, Here Too11 min
10Opposite Action: Trust or Turn Toward Your Life12 min
11Weekly review6 min
Week 4 · Reducing the Behavior
12Checking-Reduction Targets12 min
13The Comparison Spiral11 min
14The Romantic-Jealousy Track11 min
15Weekly review6 min
Week 5 · What Checking Was Standing In For
16The Conversation Instead of the Check13 min
17Envy as a Compass11 min
18Self-Worth Underneath9 min
19Weekly review6 min
Week 6 · Trusting Without Checking
20Reading Your Data10 min
21The Standing Practice12 min
GraduationA closing film from your coach
Why this works

Jealousy protects something you have. Envy points at something you want. Neither is a character flaw, and neither is a verdict on your relationship — they're urges, same as any other urge, with a signature compulsion behind them: checking. The phone scroll, the profile re-check, the comparison spiral. Checking buys about ten seconds of relief and teaches the brain to check again at the next spike. This program runs the chain-analysis machinery to find where a skill can enter, a declining weekly ceiling on checking (the same mechanism All Clear uses for health-reassurance checking, aimed here at a relationship instead of a body), and opposite action for spikes that don't fit the facts.

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