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Interpersonal

Common Ground

Getting your needs met while keeping the relationship with DBT

Six weeks to a voice you actually use

6 weeks·21 sessions·10–15 min a day·Built with clinicians
Who it’s for

For anyone who swallows their needs, says yes when they mean no, rehearses conversations for days without having them, or asks in ways that start fights they never wanted.

What’s inside

The first 4 sessions are free. Unlock the rest whenever you’re ready.

Begin
Week 1 · The Three Stakes
Week 2 · DEAR MAN
05The script14 min
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06Staying in it12 min
07The ladder and the first asks15 min
08Weekly review6 min
Week 3 · GIVE
09Relationship care12 min
10Validation13 min
11Weekly review6 min
Week 4 · FAST and the No
12Self-respect skills13 min
13The no that holds15 min
14The intensity dial12 min
15Weekly review6 min
Week 5 · When It Doesn't Work
16Skill failure vs environment failure13 min
17Repair12 min
18The big one16 min
19Weekly review6 min
Week 6 · Keep the Voice
20Reading your asking data14 min
21Keep the practice13 min
GraduationA closing film from your coach
Why this works

Most people were never taught to ask. This program teaches the DBT interpersonal effectiveness skills: a script for asking that people can hear, skills for protecting the relationship and your self-respect while you do it, and a clean no that holds. You practice on a ladder of real asks, starting smaller than you think, and your own log keeps the honest score.

Your answers are encrypted and never sold. No ads. If you’re in crisis, this program isn’t the right help — local emergency services are.

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